Thinking

As kitten sits here thinking of what to write she starts to think about things that have affected her life in one way or another, there are things in everyone’s life that have an effect on them, whether meaningful or negative, its up to the individual how they perceive these events.


Kitten knows she is outspoken at times, she is too honest at times and as such she sees things that effect her and so she reacts, this is wrong, but kitten, apart from being a slave is also a person and as such she has feelings and emotions, maybe too many, who knows, but that is part of who she is.


There are times when kitten knows she needs to walk away from a situation, to ignore things said and done, is she mature enough? Sometimes she is and at others she isn’t, this is a fault of hers, and one she tries hard to improve on but as with all things she has lapses and its those lapses that hurt people around her, something she doesn’t wish to do but its the old mentality, striking back and defending.
So what do you do in that situation? Well the best thing to do would be to walk away, to turn the other cheek and not let them affect her, in the ideal world everyone who kitten interacts with would be mature and self assured enough to take another’s point of view, but again this is not something that is possible, as long as there are two people with minds and brains there will be two people with views they think are right. If someone says something that you don’t like, something you disagree with then walk away, ignore and not take any notice, if they wish to take it further then they are the ones who are going to look stupid in the end, as it will only make them look petty and vindictive.


Problems are with us in ever step of our lives, its the way we deal with them that make us the people we are, and kitten dealt with her problem badly, again it takes a big person to admit they were wrong in their reactions.