The Power of the Mind

Your best and worst enemy in life is your mind, it has a power unrivelled by anything else in your life and that includes your Master, as once your mind gets a hold of something it can and does take over you if you let it, good or bad you start to believe what your mind tells you and its a hell of a job to shift those ideas and beliefs for even the most experienced Master, for a new one it might be impossible.

I read some blogs online and there are a few * very few thankfully* that read as if this life is all sunshine and roses, that they are perfect and all in their life is wonderful as they give the impression they are the best slave and perfect in every way. WRONG This life is not all candlelight and white knights, its life, with all that it brings and that can be alot !

The people who write these things are living in fantasy land, they are giving people the impression that all if wonderful and that they are constantly at peace with all that goes on in their life, that nothing could be better and in fact the life they are leading is so perfect and there is no way to improve it.

Its very similar to someone saying they love to be spanked and it releases their inner pain sluttiness when in reality they have had a 5 minute 'session' with a soft flogger * and those who are into spanking will know that a suede flogger does not hurt no matter how hard it is used* That is like me saying i am a deep sea diver because i sat in a paddling pool !

I read another who posts that she tells her Master what she will and will not do - this is not M/s, as any real Master will not accept a slave telling them what to do, you can have an opinion and you can suggest things but telling them ?? no way is that part of M/s or TPE, and to actually say it is is just giving so many new ones the totally wrong impression of what M/s is really all about.

Do i sound bitter ? Jaded ? well maybe i am, and the reason for that is i talk to many people both online and in person and trying to explain that some of the crap they read online is pure fantasy and not fact is getting harder and harder, people claiming to be real slaves and this is how life is supposed to be is not fair on them as with their lies and make believes come a huge responsibility to REAL slaves who know that life is life to get them to understand that no Master is totally perfect and no person is as wonderful as they make them out to be.

Maybe its time for the glasses to come off and people to be honest, not saying that all they post is doom and gloom but would love them to post honestly and truthfuly, something some of them seem to have a really hard time doing - Live in reality and not fantasy, and you will find that your relationship with your Master will be stronger and better than a story book as it will be based on truth, honesty and trust something all relationships need to survive.

OOhh by the way, if you don't like this post then i am sorry, maybe its cos you are one of those who live in laa laa land ??