What as a sub/slave is realistic to expect from "your" Dom or Master ?
What really is an expectation ?
Is it something that you as a submissive wish for or is it something that is expected or is it merely something that the Dom/Master says and you hold them to it ?
I am someone who places a lot of faith in words and actions, believing that the words really do need to match the actions as otherwise do the words not become meaningless ?
When I am told that something is going to happen, that something is going to be such and such a way I tend to believe that as I am being told something from the other persons own free will and so have no reason to expect any different. In fact I have many times tried to give them an 'out' as it was so that if they could not do what they have said then they can say so from the beginning.
So is it an unrealistic expectation to want what is said to be what happens ?
No its not, its hoping and wishing that the actions match the words ................
No comments:
Post a Comment