What is kitten ?

When you read some of the posts and blogs out there, a question that is asked many times is what is a slaves role, what happens after the scene or the sex, when normal life is what surrounds you and you are left alone in a house with your Dom or Master, what then ? What do you do ? Sit in separate rooms ? Chat across a table at meal times only ? Ignore each other until the time He wants to use you again?

Kitten thinks if that was the case, there would be a lot of unhappy Doms and Masters out there, as well as subs and slaves, this might be M/s or D/s but it is still life and that would be pretty boring if there was no interests to hold you together on those quiet times, the times that everyone needs at times. Kitten has learnt some of Masters ‘moods’ she knows when to be quiet and not disturb Him, she knows when He wishes to ask her something or say something He will, and as kitten is happy within herself she is also happy with those quiet times, they are times to reflect on her life and to wonder how she got so lucky.

There are times when Master talks to her and to be honest kitten has no idea what He is speaking about, well that was then, at the moment Master is teaching kitten two separate things, not about BDSM, but these are things that interest Him and so kitten wants to learn, and she is, kitten knows she is not the smartest person but still He is not giving up on her, this to kitten means a lot as usually in the past kitten was not ‘taught’ anything except how to please sexually, but as kitten said, after the sex there is life, and knowing how to give your Master a blow job is good during a scene but what good does it do you in holding down a conversation ?

So what is a slaves place in her Masters life ? To kitten it is to be what He decides, when He decides, a slut when He wants her to be, silent when He needs her to be, a home maker, and no not in that way, but in the way of taking care of His basic needs, cooking washing etc, and being able to hold a conversation when He wants to talk to her.

Kitten is a slave, she is what Master wants her to be when He wants her to be, and that is something she is very happy being, Masters kitten

After The Fun

Kitten has been on a few adult sites, she has talked to many people and she has given advice when asked, always with the words, this is kittens view, rightly or wrongly this is what kitten thinks or feel, and to that end she has had many conversations with others looking to enter this life and what they think it is all about, and unfortunately, so many of them are wrong, very very wrong
This life is not 24 hour sex, it is not about being tied and used as a toy for Him/Her, and nor is it about playing games * but this unfortunately happens so many times * This life is about LIFE
There are times when you are a slave or sub, a Master or Dom that you play, you ‘scene’ but what when that is done ? What when the toys are packed away and you are going back to your daily life ? What does this life hold for you then ?
Kitten sees so many play games online, they think that because they ‘submit’ online they are cut out for this life, and nothing could be further from the truth. There are so many Doms out there who think this is a good way to play games with people, to get them to basically put on a free sex show for them, unfortunately kitten knows this from experience, and when you meet a REAL Master or Dom it confuses the heck out of new ones at time. It is not only the Masters and Doms though, on the flip side there are many who say they like the lifestyle, they are ‘submissive’ at heart but in reality they only want to play, they too get their kicks from camming for others, playing games online, how would they fair in life ? Not very well kitten thinks, as in real life things are not like that, hell no one is going to be played with 24/7 and thats when things are really telling.... can the peson you are with have nothing sexual between you for two weeks ? Can they and will they still be as struck on you if there is no play ? Will the attraction still be there after a month ? Extreme kitten knows but BDSM and this life is not all about sex, it is about people and life, and sometimes people tend to forget this in pursuit of an orgasm, yet those in this life, really into this life know that the play is such a small part of it, it is the living of this life that takes the strength many do not have.